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Alpha Female Seeking True Alpha Male

In Dating, Love, Relationships by Queenie2 Comments

About two years ago a guy friend was lecturing me about my dating life and asked what I really wanted and needed in a guy. I paused and I thought about it, but I already knew. “Dude. I need an alpha male.” He was not happy with my answer and actually laughed in my face. He laughed for a few …

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Why Guys Are Afraid Of Confident Women

In Dating, Love, Relationships by Queenie2 Comments

Since I started dating, guys (and a recent Buzzfeed quiz) have only consistently said one thing about me- I’m intimidating. At first this really bothered me because I didn’t feel intimidating. I make my roommates kill spiders, I cried like an asshole while watching UP, I can’t watch scary movies or even the trailers on TV, and when it comes …

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Modern Dating = Real Life Hunger Games

In Dating, Divorced, Love, Relationships, Single by Queenie1 Comment

“Hide-and-seek, grown-up style. Wanting to hide. Needing to be sought. Confused about being found.” – Robert Fulghum When it comes to dating it is like hide-and-seek, and these days I spend more time hiding than I do seeking, which is quite the change from three years ago. It’s no secret my dating style, or lack-there-of, is a bit “different.” People …

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The Mind of a Maneater

In Dating, Relationships by Queenie0 Comments

hen I started my blog one of my co-workers messaged me and told me I reminded him of Neil Strauss. He said we were essentially writing about the same things and he told me to go get his book. I headed to the book store and searched every shelf for The Game but couldn’t find it. I finally went up …

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That Time I Stole A Guy On A Date

In Dating, Relationships by Queenie0 Comments

here came a day when I realized I had a super power. It was exciting and terrifying and I had no idea what to do with it, but once I perfected it I figured it’d be pretty bad ass. What’s funny is every female possesses this same power, some of you just fear it and don’t use it- or even …

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5 Ways To Know A Guy REALLY Likes You

In Dating, Love, Relationships by Queenie0 Comments

As females we waste a ridiculous amount of time trying to decode the cryptic language of men. We spend hours over-analyzing texts and conversations wondering if we said or did something wrong. Instead of recognizing the obvious, we justify their words and actions because it’s easier to remain hopeful than it is to admit that the guy we like doesn’t …

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Love In The 21st Century

In Dating, Love, Relationships by Queenie0 Comments

I tried to make it a full 14 days on Tinder but deleted the app with 5 days to go. I can’t completely knock it, but it’s just not for me. The app was highly entertaining and addicting, I made a ton of observations and even got asked on a date. But first, let’s start with age ranges and what …

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Computer Love

In Dating, Divorced, Love, Relationships, Single by Queenie0 Comments

Social media does nothing but complicate the world of dating. Having been married and only using social media as a way to stay in touch with friends and family, I would have never dreamed this other side would have existed. But the day came when I changed my relationship status from married to single and social media turned into the …