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A Letter To My Ex-husband

In Dating, Divorced, Love, Relationships by Queenie0 Comments

When it comes to you everyone waits for my reaction. It’s been 3 ½ years and they still wait for my reaction. If you’re around I get stares, if your name is mentioned everyone looks at me to make sure it’s ok that they keep talking. I don’t know if people want me to fly into a fit of rage …

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We Need to Have “The Talk”

In Dating, Divorced, Love, Relationships by Queenie0 Comments

The talk. It’s made girls cry, boys crumble and people give up on a relationship because they’re too afraid to get their feelings hurt. Having a talk requires two people to be honest and vulnerable, two things I have come to learn that people absolutely HATE and will avoid at all possible costs. Apparently, there are rules to having the …

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Modern Dating = Real Life Hunger Games

In Dating, Divorced, Love, Relationships, Single by Queenie1 Comment

“Hide-and-seek, grown-up style. Wanting to hide. Needing to be sought. Confused about being found.” – Robert Fulghum When it comes to dating it is like hide-and-seek, and these days I spend more time hiding than I do seeking, which is quite the change from three years ago. It’s no secret my dating style, or lack-there-of, is a bit “different.” People …

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Valentine’s Day is awful for everyone

In Dating, Divorced, Love, Relationships by Queenie0 Comments

I just walked past the mirror and high-fived myself for remaining single for another Valentine’s Day, it’s been tough, these guys have been making it soooooo difficult (eye roll). While most of my friends started to find their winter time cuddle buddies, for me, dating from November 1st– Feb. 13th is completely off limits. November – February is love and …

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Divorced for the Holidays

In Divorced, Love, Relationships, Single by Queenie0 Comments

read one of those articles about being single during the holidays and I got annoyed. I understand that I’ve already been on the other side of the fence and had the chance to spend 10 holidays with someone. But maybe that gives me a better perspective. So before you start binge eating cookies and playing power hour with eggnog to …

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The one thing I hide

In Divorced, Family, Life by Queenie1 Comment

I have a reputation of being tough. When one of my girlfriends was going through a breakup she said, “I wish I could be like you, you’re way stronger than I am.” I swore to her that I felt the same way she did, but she didn’t get it because I never talked about it and she never saw it. …

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Computer Love

In Dating, Divorced, Love, Relationships, Single by Queenie0 Comments

Social media does nothing but complicate the world of dating. Having been married and only using social media as a way to stay in touch with friends and family, I would have never dreamed this other side would have existed. But the day came when I changed my relationship status from married to single and social media turned into the …